Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It: A Call to Radical Self-Love

Lucky Girl Syndrome can only take us so far; it’s time to build long-lasting self-love habits

Natalie Ruiz
4 min readMar 24, 2023
Natalie Ruiz —I am literally stopping to smell the roses!

Radical self-love is so important, and Lucky Girl Syndrome can only take us so far. It’s time to lean into our worth and power and speak to ourselves with the same love and kindness that we would show our best friend.

Have you been hearing about Lucky Girl Syndrome? I have kids at home who use Tik Tok, and I am an elder millennial who is on Instagram, so I definitely have been exposed to this idea lately. In case this has missed you, Lucky Girl Syndrome is a new name for an old concept that suggests having a positive attitude and believing in one’s luck or good fortune can lead to positive outcomes in life. This idea is often paired with a call to incorporate positive affirmations and manifestation practices into our lives, encouraging individuals to focus on positive thoughts and beliefs to attract positive outcomes and experiences.

While I believe there is merit to the idea of having a positive attitude and mindset, it’s important to recognize that luck alone is not enough to…

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Natalie Ruiz

Tech CEO. Mom. Non-Profit Board Member. Working to normalize belonging at work. Living in gratitude. Trying to leave people and places better than I find them.